Volunteer Service of Miss Emily Kime, from the UK who volunteered
with IRDC for part of her Gap Year (June-August 2009)
Lady lynn Joyful Home for Childern, Gandharvakottai, Pudukottai
Dt.Tamil Nadu, South India. |
| Background : |
I became aware of the Lady Lynn Joyful Home through a family friend
and I asked if it might be possible to spend two months of my
Gap Year as a volunteer working with Integrated Rural Development
Center (IRDC) – particularly with the children, as I love children
and had experience of childcare. It was agreed that my family
would cover all my travel and insurance costs and that IRDC would
provide my food and accommodation in return for which I would
volunteer in any area of the charity’s work where I could be of
most help. |
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| My
Stay : |
I arrived at Lady Lynn Joyful Home for Children (LLJH) on
the 10th of June 2009 and stayed for two months, and I loved
it. Unfortunately, I arrived with an injured foot from
a holiday in Thailand, so my first two weeks involved going
to and fro from hospital. It was frustrating for me not to be
able to start teaching or to be able to play with the children;
however the girls often came up into my bedroom and would
sing, dance and paint my nails. I only got to really know the
boys later when I could move around.
I stayed
within the orphanage itself, in two joined rooms at the
end of the corridor of the girls’ dormitory and shared the room
with an Anglo-Indian girl called Miranda, who went on to
become a very close friend and rock.
The staff here are also lovely, each and every one of them.
They would constantly ask me whether I was happy and whether
there was anything they could do for me. If there is one thing
I can stress, it is that I was well taken care of..
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| Teaching
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IRDC
is working on a literacy project with a US charity and when I
arrived, representatives of a US Foundation and one of the Trustees
of the literacy charity were visiting and had produced a programme
for tutoring English at the LLJH. The programme covered how to
teach the children English through games, songs, and puzzles as
well as books.
My injury meant that I needed to stay in my room and I initially
gave five one-hour long tutorials in English five days a week
(two children at a time) but, when I was able to move about, I
was able to give proper lessons to entire year groups during school
hours. After school I took those who were weak in reading
for individual reading sessions in the orphanage’s new library.
I became aware that it was very important for the children
to learn spoken English, as they had been taught how to read and
write but were not able to speak. It soon became obvious that
one of the benefits of having an English speaker available is
that they could hear and learn correct pronunciation. |
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Playing
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Outside
lesson time I would play and speak to the children as much as
possible. I loved spending time with them - they are wonderful
children and have such a brilliant sense of humour, despite coming
from troubled backgrounds. They are all so beautiful with
huge dark eyes that make you melt on the spot. There are 30 boys
and 20 girls. The boys are jokers, everything they do would make
me laugh - they were constantly climbing, jumping and being silly,
the girls were much more sophisticated, and they sang entrancingly
and played orderly games. During playtime, just walking past the
garden in between lessons I would hear a chorus of 50 voices saying
"hello mam" "good morning mam" "maaaaam
look at this" "maaaaaaam" "good afternoon
mam". It was wonderful.
At the weekends, I played games with the children, organized group
activities - races, musical chairs, Fire in the Mountain - and,
as winners received prizes, this was lots of fun and motivating.
Moreover I set up a competition for the children and they chose
in groups to either sing, act, dance or read/give a speech which
they had a week to prepare and then perform in public. Helping
them practice for the competition showed me how keen they were
to learn as long as the method is fun!
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Daily Exploring :
During my stay I was able to explore the surroundings and visit
the nearest villages and towns. The biggest town nearest to the
Lady Lynn Joyful Home is Trichy, which lies an hour away from
Ghandarvakottai, the orphanage and the neighbouring village. There
I could go shopping and get more or less anything I needed, which
wasn’t much, everything was provided. I visited the main temples
in Thanjavur, and Rockfort in Trichy and Mr. Pitchairaj (IRDC’s
Director), Miranda, and I visited Velankani, which is a beautiful
town, with a magnificent church. When I was away for that weekend,
I missed the children terribly, and so brought them back souvenirs,
keychains with messages inscribed on them.
I have been lucky enough to familiarize myself with the workings
of IRDC, which organizes self-help groups in the villages, provides
needy families with cows providing not only much needed nutrition
through milk, but also a monthly income through the sale of excess
milk, and many other beneficial reforms in the communities. I
was able to see the plans, procedures and benefits enjoyed by
the village populations. Going around the villages has taught
me so much about Indian culture and the socio economic struggles
in rural India and I was privileged to be invited into people’s
homes and humbled by their generosity.
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Recommendation :
This experience has been so enriching, and has taught me so much,
I can't think of a better way to have spent part of my gap year
and I would thoroughly recommend it to other students considering
a charity to support with their time. The children and staff of
Lady Lynn Joyful Home will stay with me forever, and as soon as
funds allow me to return, I shall be on the next flight. |
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